woo...Christmas is coming soon...Jingle bell jingle bell jingle all the way!!
recently i received christmas cards from my dear piglet members..thx u very much^_^!!
now only left Yeong Her, Tzyy ren...will post a blog bout the cards soon..
Besides that, i also received some gifts from my fellowship and friend in hometown..
hahaha..not some expensive stuffs but i find them quite interesting..

AS u can see...there are one original christmas cd package(with one angel key chain), one crystal christmas tree, some cute marshmallow, candies, and two boxes of tissue papers!!.hahaha..

i love these marshmallow..So cute..i wonder who bought them for me..i decide to keep it without eating ..haha..XD

Mum home make delicious tang yuan!!!!..colorful and pretty rite

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Gap to cross over

Hmm...tonight i would share some topic about communication...
Many of the times we felt that there is a broad gap between us and some people
..it can be the senior adult, parents, siblings, friends n so forth.. The gap which we find it's barely able to conquer and cross over..
Soon we may feel it's not big deal..after all it may be just a piddling matter to care of..what for we do anything to revamp the issue..what i learn from the past...the effect can be devastating and lead to more social problem..which we actually know deep inside our heart...
As for me...i must admit that my friends are closer to me compared with my family..
The only family member whom i will share my big and small is my mother...no need to mention my dad and bros...there is less than hundred sentences we talk in one year... cham ma..hahaha...so i start to think of the situation i may probably encounter in future...no doubt..it would be a sad and lonely scene to picture...TT
Flash back...i remember an famous author(施以诺)mentioned b4 in his book...

(type with chinese words..easier to understand)


挥杆时有时要轻些,有时要重些, 讲究的是“巧”, 而不是靠蛮力!沟通要拿捏适当的语气,不要一味只想靠fierce, 靠冲,靠气势。。在口上取胜,说话温婉一些,巧妙一些,将使你的社交更无往不利。

一场高尔夫球赛下来可能得花上半天的时间在球场上待着,沟通何尝不是如此? 特别是劝化人,听人心事,开导人时。需要你的耐心!让别人花点时间和空间咀嚼你的话,不要期望他人立刻明白或对你的言语表态,认同。

i think if we acquire these communication skills or attitude... we may discover that after all a step to interact with one person doesn't seem as difficult as it thought...Yet i find out that one more thing we lack of is the courage to make the first move...勇气!!maybe as time passing by, we will realize and learn from experience...or we may feel regret for not fixing this gaps..without knowing what is the consequences..

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Christ + Celebration = Christmas

With Christmas around the corner, it can be seen that Christmas tree and beautiful ornaments are decorated all over the streets, stores, and houses. It is a joyous and warm season for Western countries people..
Yet does everyone know what is the true reason we celebrate Christmas annually on 25th December.? As for the atheists, it’s nothing more but the hectic season when the Santa Claus and his eves are busily fabricated the toys which the good children hope for in the letters and try to add to the gaiety of the celebration by granting all their wishes. Or it is the wonderful gala moment for family gathering around the table to indulge the scrumptious turkey meal.
Since past few years, the word “Christmas” is slowly subverted by the term “Xmas” either in the greeting cards or email cards where “Christ” had been taking out of “Christmas”. Some Christian may grouse that Jesus our lord has been censored out of his own “birthday” and decry the use of the abbreviation "Xmas" as some kind of blasphemy against Christ and Christianity.
This misunderstanding and fear mongering about the use of "Xmas" is not a new phenomenon.. I myself as a Christian understand their sensitivity who worry about the perception Xmas may give for those unbelievers. To be honest, I never thought of the meaning of Xmas and also don’t know why was Xmas. It can be Amas, Omas or ever Emas. So I decide to “google” it.

It is what the article written:

“Abbreviations used as Christian symbols have a long history in the church. The letters of the word "Christ" in Greek, the language in which the New Testament was written, or various titles for Jesus early became symbols of Christ and Christianity. For example, the first two letters of the word Christ (cristosV, or as it would be written in older manuscripts, CRISTOS) are the Greek letters chi (c or C) and rho (r or R). These letters were used in the early church to create the chi-rho monogram (see Chrismons), a symbol that by the fourth century became part of the official battle standard of the emperor Constantine.
Another example is the symbol of the fish, one of the earliest symbols of Christians that has been found scratched on the walls of the catacombs of Rome. It likely originated from using the first letter of several titles of Jesus (Jesus Christ Son of God Savior). When combined these initial letters together spelled the Greek word for fish (icquV, ichthus).
The exact origin of the single letter X for Christ cannot be pinpointed with certainty. Some claim that it began in the first century AD along with the other symbols, but evidence is lacking. Others think that it came into widespread use by the thirteenth century along with many other abbreviations and symbols for Christianity and various Christian ideas that were popular in the Middle Ages. However, again, the evidence is sparse.”

In this beautiful season, I hope to remind all of you that Christmas is the day when we celebrate the birth of Baby Jesus in Bethlehem who “humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross”. We all are sinner and our bodies only become perfect when accept Jesus as our Savior. So from now on, hope u guys have a better understanding of the celebration.(^_^)
Here I would like to wish all of you a very Merry Christmas DaY!!

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夜深了 想累了

猜不透 會不會
聽見了嗎 右手心的孤單

慢慢的 回憶著

天亮了 醒悟了

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Self communion (Back again)

Hallo, it has been quite a long time for me to write something in this webpage. I wonder how all of you doing? Miss all the kl friends..Hope u guys have the wonderful holidays with family and friends. Apparently I had been enjoyed and suffered from my holidays. Well, the parts I’m enjoying so much were the time I hanging around with intimate friends, traveling within this beautiful country, and best part of it is no more fxxking annoying alarm ring tone waking me up in the early morning, which means I have unrestrained privilege at home and can just sleep like a dead man in the sweet and cozy air conditioned bedroom. About the terrible parts of it I don’t wish to have further elaboration- gone deeply into “debt”, realize that my hometown really is a boring place to live at (no much entertainment provided), need to help my family business ever during holidays, and undoubtedly again here comes my mother nagging for all the big or small matters everyday. Even though I had almost completed all my holiday schedules, I still find there is a missing part. Hmm…is my holiday going to end meaninglessly in this way?

As it is too free to do anything in my hometown, I start to spend some times in reading and meditation. Some questions surfaced as I tucked in my bed. What my future’s going to be? Am I choosing the right path? What really is the God’s will? Questions plague me and some of my friends. I can’t figure out what is correct and definite answer. No signs or sound from God answering my prayers yet. However I believe faithfulness is the only attitude that I need to cling to. I remembered one article written that disappointments and hopeless feeling can be holy moments when we are stepping outside our own reality and embrace God’s. Somehow, he entices us to broader horizon, the fuller hope and calls us to hope in more that we see now, and to believe. It’s all a matter of time.

Now when I’m standing at my balcony and looking at the sunset, I feel extremely relieve with less grumbling, complaining but more heart of thanksgiving. After all, I’m blessed. ^_^ (time for dinner)

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