白纸和网子

Here is the easy experiment u can try or just simply imagine it. Now what u need are one powerful electric fan, a piece of white A4 paper,and a net. Then hold the paper tightly with both hands and face it to the electric fan. Switch on the fan and adjust the power to the highest. Guess what may happen to the paper...Undoubtedly it will be torn... 破掉 Next repeat the experiment by replacing the paper with a net with constant variable or condition. Everthough both paper and net is blown by the same wind power, the net will probably just wave in the air and will never torn.

The difference between the paper and the net, is nothing more but, 白纸硬生生地接下了每一个冲击在它身上的空气粒子，而网子却让大部分的空气粒子穿拂而过，所以白纸容易因声破裂，而网子却安然无恙。

想一想，每个人活在世上都会遭遇到很多无端的批评与偏激的攻计，面对“强力的风扇”，你会选择当一个白纸？仰或作一面网子？面对那些不堪入耳的恼人言词，你的处理方式是硬生生地全部记下？还是宽容地将它们无数忘过？

诚心地建议你，面对别人的三言两语，要学习用“三不政策”来潇洒地将它们扔诸脑后：
1）（不）斤斤计较
2）（不）胡思乱想
3）（不）反唇相几



(hope this article will make u learn to forgive, forget and forever happy)
(adapted from 心灵小点心3）