Most of the people ll often express their feeling of loneliness to their parents, school peers.. complaining how miserable is his/her social interaction...no friend who stand by through thick and thin...or even lend a shoulder to cry on...
What actually is loneliness? In my opinion, loneliness is not just a matter of being alone. U may find that the monk with his vow of silence in the temple may not feel forlorn; the individual in an uncongenial group may feel very lonely indeed...The richness of life lies in the companionship of a person with whom one has an emotional connection and perhaps a physical relationship...
YOu may feel in such a way because of bereavement, have lesser true friends to communicate with..In other way..these prime causes can be easily explained as the deficient of love and caring shown by the people surrounding to you...
You may be hoping hugs , immediate comfort and accompany of someone in the very moment..
It is indeed a difficult task to figure out what actually is the remedy for loneliness...
Perhaps, you are the only person who know the cure on your own...after all, it's from you inner emotion due to outside pressure n influences..
After valentine this year, i heard a lot of ppl saying that they are lonely...they saw themselves as the pathetic person..hmm... loneliness are surely smthg that ppl try to get rid of...
Lonely=> Depressed= >Slow self esteem= >Negative view=> Boring and meaningless world
Yet what would i say is to open your heart for accept and meet everyone... till one day u may realize actually you are a lovely person and you seem to be rejected many opportunities for others to care for you before that... is it so? i don't know..
Yet One thing for sure..there should be No more loneliness for all of us!!!
Happiness is smthg u need grab, not to wait for...
~~快乐就在不远处~~
What a wonderful world
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